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7 Teachings
Why Should We Stand With Israel?
History of the "CHURCH" in Regard
to Racism and Anti-Semitism.
The 4 Characteristics of a Hero
Apology vs. Repentance
Blessings vs. Curses
Questions for Making Decisions
Where are the Heroes? |
Why
Should We Stand With Israel? |
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Many
people ask us why we believe Christians, especially
American Christians, should stand with Israel during
these difficult times. We thought it would be
beneficial, to those of you who somehow know that the
Scriptures command us to stand with Israel but do not
know how to defend that stand with others, if we gave
you a brief outline of the main reasons for taking
that stand.
Morally:
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Christians, Jews and women are second class citizens
under the Palestinian Authority. People are
treated equally in Israel.
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Palestinian children are taught to hate Jews and
Christians. They are taught that is it a good
thing to kill Jews, and then are taught how to do
that killing. The Palestinian children are
taught an altered version of Middle Eastern history
and are given a vision of a future without the nation
of Israel. Israeli school books are open
to inspection and are based on democratic principles.
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Palestinians who are suspected of collaborating
with Israel (many of whom are Christians) are often
tortured, killed and then their bodies dragged through
the streets.
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Prisoners of the PA are often tortured and then
killed.
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Money given to Israel by the United States is
easily traced and accounted for. Money given to the
PA is often used to further terrorism and seldom
reaches the people who need it. Money given
to the PA is very difficult to trace.
Militarily:
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Israel is the only democracy in the Middle East.
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Israel functions as a free trade nation and is
based on capitalism for individual wealth.
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Israel buys military equipment from us, which
helps our economy. They then modify that
equipment and share the improvements with the US.
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Israeli intelligence is some of the best in the
world. They share their information with
the US.
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Without Israel in that area of the world, the
oil producing nations would have us “over a barrel”.
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Palestinians and their leadership cheered and danced
in the streets when Iraq rained scud missals on Israel
during the Gulf War and after the twin towers in
New York were hit on September 11, 2001.
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The PA has consistently sided with the enemies
of Israel and the United States.
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If terrorism is allowed to succeed in Israel it
will be more successful here in the US.
Spiritually:
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Israel is G-d’s inheritance and He is jealous
for His land and people. Micah 7:14; Zech.
1:14&15; Joel 3:2
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The Lord promised that He would bless the world
through the Jews and that He would show His glory
through them. Isaiah 60:1-3
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The Lord said that He would bless those who blessed
His people and that He would curse those who cursed
them. Genesis 12:3
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The Scriptures say that the Lord will seek to destroy
the nations that come against His people. Zech. 12:9
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Scriptures say that if we touch His people we
touch the “apple of His eye”. Zech.
2:8
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The descendants of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob are
the sons of the promise. Messiah is promised
to come through this line. Genesis 12:1-3; 26:1-5; 28;13&14
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The Jewish people have been faithful to keep the
written word of G-d pure and to share that word
with the world. Romans 9:4&5
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Israel takes good care of the holy sites it has
jurisdiction over and keeps them open to all faiths.
Most of the Christian holy sites are in Jerusalem. Those
that have been taken over by the PA are not kept
up or are dangerous to visit.
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According to Romans 11, Christians are grafted
in to the root of Judaism. Therefore, Christians
should understand that the responsibilities, as
well as the promises, that are stated in the Scriptures
are theirs also.
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Satan vs the G-d of Israel
+ The Lord promised that His covenant
with Israel and the Jewish people was everlasting.
(Jeremiah 33;23-26) He promised to bless the
world through them. He promised to show Himself
through them. He promised that the Messiah would
come through them.
+ If satan can destroy Israel or
the Jewish people – then that means the Lord
lied and He is not who He says He is – and satan
wins.
+ From the beginning, satan has tried
to destroy the Jewish people through – Pharaoh,
Haman, Inquisition, Crusades, Russian Pograms, Holocaust,
Mid-East Wars, Suicide bombers – just to name
a few.
We must chose to stand with the Lord G-d of Israel
and His land and people!!!
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History of the "CHURCH" in
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I. The
First Thousand Years (33AD - 1095)
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The early Church was Jewish.
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Origen of Alexandria – 185-254CE promotes
allegorical interpretation of scriptures, de-emphasizes
Israel’s covenant.
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230CE – concept of deicide – Hippolytus
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Moved from Hebrew to Greek world-view.
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Rise of the concept of supersessionism. (replacement
theology)
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632CE – beginning of forced baptisms
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897CE – Jews stripped of property rights.
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10th century CE – Custom of hitting a Jew
in the face on Good Friday and stoning Jewish homes
on Palm Sunday.
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The Crusades (1095 - 1204)
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1095 – 1st Crusade: More than 5,000 Jews
in the Rhineland slaughtered by the Crusaders as
they made their way to the Holy Land.
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1146 – 2nd Crusade: Entire Jewish
community of Bloise, France burned at the stake
in Blood Libel accusion.
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Debts owed to Jews were cancelled for Crusaders.
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1215 – Jews forced to wear distinctive dress
and live in restricted areas
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Star of David as a badge of shame and pointed hat
required in Poland.
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1236 – Burning of Talmud and other Jewish
writings.
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The Inquisition (1198 - 1834)
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1320 – Beginning of Jewish world conspiracy
theories: Blood Libel, Jews accused of poisoning
water wells.
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1347-50–Black Death: Jews blamed, 200 Jewish
communities destroyed
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Inquisition – permanent court of the Church.
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Marranos or Conversos – Jews who had converted
under duress but maintained ties with Jewish community
and practice.
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1483 – Torquemonde, Inquisitor General –1000s
of Jews tortured and burned at the stake.
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1492-1300 – 13,000 Jews forced to leave
Spain
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1500 – 1600 Reformation
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Luther had sympathy for the Jews in the early
years of his work. Became angry when they didn’t
quickly convert to his renewed Christianity.
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1543 – Luther published Of the Jews
and Their Lies. Main Points: synagogues
should be burned; Rabbis forbidden to teach; get
rid of Talmuds & prayerbooks; forbid passports
and travel; stop Jews from money lending.
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1600 – 1900 Further Developments
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Poland: received Jewish refugees from time of
Crusaders.
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Russia: Pograms – devastation. 1881-1921
mass Jewish migration to US & Argentina
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Myth
of racial superiority of Aryan race. Hegel,
de Gobineau
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France: 1894 – Dreyfus case, Herzl
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Protocols of the Learned Elders of Zion – hoax
by Russian anti-Semites, 1905. Exposed in 1921
by London Times. Promoted in US by Henry Ford
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The Holocaust (1938 - 1945)
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Hitler becomes Chancellor (by election) – 1933
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Nuremberg Laws identify & isolate Jewish population – 1935
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Kristallnacht – anti-Jewish riots – Nov.
9, 1938
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Building of death camps – 1940-42
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6 million Jews dead – 1945 (5 millions others
dead)
- WHERE WAS THE CHURCH?
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The
4 Characteristics of a Hero |
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ALTRUISTIC EXERCISES FOR FAMILIES
- give up your place in line - give up your seat in
the bus
- buy someone else's ticket at a movie or sports event
- listen to someone - visit a nursing home or hospital
- send flowers to someone - compliment someone
- tell someone when they make a difference in your
life
- carry someone's packages - help someone, anyone
- mow someone's lawn - pull someone's weeds
- buy treats for a family and leave it on their porch
- learn sign language and use it at church
- pick up a disabled person and take them out
- make extra soup and take it to someone who is in
need
- surprise someone on their birthday with a cake
- think of a person who really bothers you, take them
out for a soda and listen to them
- pray that the Lord would bless one who has hurt you
- send a hand drawn card to someone who is lonely
- help at the local soup kitchen or food pantry
- volunteer to help at various ethnic events in your
area
- hold a rummage and bake sale and donate the proceeds
Kids - do house chores without being
told to - clean your room - clear the table - wash
the dishes - etc.
- come home a half hour before your curfew time
- tell your teacher you learned something from them
- leave a note for your mom or dad - I LOVE YOU
NOTE : Try to do at least one good
thing for someone else every day. Discuss what
each of you did during the week, how you felt before
and after you did the deeds and how the other people
involved reacted. Then make plans for the next
week's good deeds. Remember, you are trying to
establish a habit of doing good deeds for others
expecting nothing in return.
EMPATHY BUILDERS
-Volunteer at nursing homes, schools or hospitals.
-Work at a soup kitchen.
-Feed and care for an AIDS patient.
-Work on projects with different ethnic groups.
-Work at a homeless shelter.
-Work at a crisis intervention center.
-Study the history of various ethnic cultures in your
city.
-Participate in ethnic cultural events.
-Take a trip to Israel.
-Study the scriptures in the Bible to find people who
showed empathy for others.
COURAGE BUILDERS
-Speak up when you hear ethnic jokes or derogatory
remarks about others.
-Befriend someone who is being shunned.
-Question religious, political, educational and social
leadership when you do not agree with them.
-Call, fax or write your elected officials about political
issues which are important to you and your family.
-Say "no" when a friend or coworker asks
you to participate in something illegal or unethical.
-Study the lives of "righteous gentiles" as
well as biblical and modern day heroes.
-Help victims of terrorism and persecution by speaking
up on their behalf and by giving financial aid.
-Volunteer to work with Christian/Jewish organizations
on a kibbutz or settlement in Israel.
-Work with an organization which fights persecution.
-Study the scriptures in the Bible to find people who
did acts of courage.
SELF-ESTEEM BUILDERS
-Smile when you see me.
-Call me by my name.
-Listen to me when I talk.
-Show me you love me.
-Let me know that you missed me when I was gone.
-Give me a chance to succeed in at least one small
way each day.
-Praise me when I do something right.
-Encourage me when I do something right.
-Encourage me to aim high.
-Study the scriptures in the Bible to find out how
much G-d loves you.
HEALTHY FAMILIES
-have empathy.
-talk and listen to each other.
-balance interaction among members.
-share responsibilities.
-have a shared religious core.
-respect the privacy of the members,
-have a sense of play and humor.
-have strong feelings about the family.
-encourage rituals and positive traditions.
-share leisure time.
-place value on service to others.
-teach value of persons who are different.
-affirm and support each other.
-encourage members to share their feelings without
fear.
-trust each other.
Proverbs
22:6 "Train up a child in the
way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart
from it."
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We
have been hearing a lot of talk about the need to make
apologies to people groups who have been wronged in
the past. At one time President Clinton was making
apologies to people for things the government did to
their ancestors in the past. On the surface this
sounds like a good thing to do. However, let's
take a look at the definitions of apology and of repentance. According
to Webster's Dictionary the definition of apology is: "an
expression of regret for a discourteous remark or act." The
definition of repent is: "to turn from sin and
resolve to reform one's life."
An apology
for the evil acts done to the ancestors of someone,
given by an ancestor of the ones who did the evil act,
changes nothing. An apology just states
regret. In fact, bringing up the evil acts without
making any changes which will prevent these acts from
being repeated, can cause frustration, hurt and even
more division.
On the other hand, when we learn about
evils done to others by our ancestors and take an in-depth
look at how these things from our past have adversely
affected our thoughts
and behaviors towards others, we are then in a position
to repent and "resolve
to reform" our lives. Repentance
for our own thoughts
and actions toward other people groups causes things
to change for the better and helps prevent them from
happening again.
When we
study the history of the Christian church we find that
many evil things were done to various racial and ethnic
groups in the name of Jesus. When we
study the Crusades, the Inquisition, the Pograms in
Russia and the Holocaust we find many horrors done by people who called themselves
Christians and in the name of Jesus.
"Church" teaching and attitudes. One teaching which has been espoused
by several Christian denominations is referred to as
Replacement Theology. This theology teaches that the Church has replaced the
Jews as the chosen of the Lord. Another teaching we actually heard a
Christian teacher give was that the Holocaust happened so that the Jews would
accept Jesus and that because they didn't accept Him that another event similar
to the Holocaust is necessary. Teaching such as this actually tries to justify
the actions perpetrated against the Jews during World War II and releases the
one making the statements from any need for personal accountability for their
own thoughts and actions toward Jews now and in the future. This accusation
is even worse than the one used by the Nazis who said that the Jews brought
the Holocaust upon themselves because some of them were Communists. We believe
that this type of teaching is anti-Semitism at it's worst! If we ask the Lord
to reveal to us individually how this and other unhealthy teaching has affected
our attitudes toward Jews, we will probably find things of which we were not
aware. Once we are aware of our own unhealthy stereotypes and attitudes we
can take steps to change them.
We see racism
and anti-Semitism on the rise in the United States
and around the world. It
is easy to become discouraged and to feel that there
is no way to heal all of the divisions that exist between
the races, religions and cultures. However,
the Lord has given us a hope and instructions on how
to heal our country. In
2Chronicles 7:14 the Lord states, "if my people
who are called by my name humble themselves, and pray
and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways,
then I will hear from heaven, and will forgive their
sin and heal their land."
Apologies
are an easy cop-out and only take words. Repentance
takes time, humility and actions. Apologies may
actually cause more harm. Repentance
brings healing.
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“…I have set before you life and
death, blessing and curse; therefore choose life,
that you and your descendants may live,” Deut.
30:19
Are you teaching your children to bless or curse? Deut.11
Are you blessing your children and spouse or are you
cursing them?
Orthodox Jewish families have Sabbath services in their
homes – The father blesses his children and his
wife.
How many
things have you spoken life and blessings into today?
How many
things have you spoken curses into today?
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President
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Children
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Boss
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Teachers
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Pastors
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Spouse
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Job situation
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Politicians
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Parents – in-laws
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Yourself
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Finances
Blessings bring: life, compassion, joy,
love, expectations, zeal, hope, humility, encouragement
Curses bring: death, fear, hatred, revenge,
discouragement, despair, judgement, destruction.
Assignment: Examine
yourself for today. Have you spoken or thought
more blessings or more curses into what you have faced
and over the people you have had to deal with?
Begin blessing your children and spouse at least once
today in word and in your thoughts.
Now, begin blessing each situation you find yourself
in. Look for the Lord’s hand in each situation
and ask for His blessings to overtake the curses.
Begin carrying blessings with you wherever you go and
leave some behind for those around you. (People will
begin to enjoy having you around. Although they
may be a bit irritated with you and your optimism at
first.)
Speak life, find good, pronounce blessings,
bring joy & hope.
Genesis 12:3 Psalms 122:6-9 Duet.
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“The Culture of Life” vs “The Culture
of Death”
While we
were in the Los Angeles, CA area we were privileged
to meet and spend some time with a man who was on Schindler’s
List as a child during the Holocaust. Zev
Kedem survived 6 Nazi concentration camps and was saved
by being placed on Oscar Schindler’s list of
necessary workers. He now speaks about
his experiences and the things he has gleaned from
his past at universities throughout the US and Europe. Zev
lives in Israel when he is not on the road sharing
his message.
Zev believes
that there is a dynamic at work in this world that
pits the “culture
of life” against the “culture of death”. He
also believes that the experiences a child has leaves
an “imprint” on his or
her mind that helps to determine whether that child
will be more likely to gravitate toward a “culture
of life” or a “culture of death”.
As
we spoke we came to realize that much of what we share
when we speak or write is the same, but on two different
planes. Zev has done a lot of study about
the effects of imprinting upon the minds of young people
and how this effects them as adults. He shares
what happened to him during the Holocaust and how his
experiences affect his life and decisions today. Most
of his audiences are university students and people
in the academia. Zev
approaches the subject from a secular point of view.
When
we speak about the Holocaust, and those few people
who were able to take a stand on behalf of their Jewish
neighbors, we share what we have found to be the 4
main characteristics most of these people seemed to
have in common. These
4 characteristics, altruism, empathy, courage and self-esteem,
were things that were taught or “imprinted” to
these “rescuers” during
their formative years. We believe that it was
because these people were trained, through a series
of learning experiences, to do good things for others
without expecting anything in return, that they were
able to react the way they did in the face of evil.
We
also believe that it is not too late for a person to
learn to “choose life” no
matter what his age or his background. In Deuteronomy
30:15&19 we
read, “See, I have set before you this day
life and good, death and evil”………”I
have set before you life and death, blessing and
curse; therefore choose life, that you and your descendants
may live,..”
In Deuteronomy
we are given the instructions on how to choose life, “…therefore
choose life that you and your descendants may live,
loving the Lord your God, obeying his voice, and
cleaving to him; for that means life to you and length
of days….” When
you study the laws the Lord gave to His people to hand
down to their descendants, especially the 10 commandments,
you find that they were given for the good of the people. If
they were obeyed, these laws produced life, health,
happiness and order to both the individual and the
community. These laws were given out of love
by a loving G-d to the people He loved. In Genesis
the Lord told Abraham, Isaac and then Jacob that He
created them to be a blessing to the world and to bring
glory to Him. We believe that the giving of the
law to the Jewish people is one of the main avenues
He has used to cause the descendants of Abraham, Isaac
and Jacob to bring blessing to the world and glory
to their G-d.
Because the Jews have been faithful
to protect the written word and have been willing to
share it with the whole world, we have been given the
opportunity to make the same decision on whether to
choose life or to choose death.
From the
beginning the Lord has given us the free will to follow
His prescription to live a rewarding life or to choose
death and have many regrets about our life. First
He gave us the tools and then He gave us the option
of whether or not to use those tools.
When we
choose life and experience a close relationship with
G-d, we set in motion a model for our children, which
makes it more likely that they will make the same decision. This
may then begin a passing down of the blessings of G-d
to the fourth generation and beyond.
When you look at
Deuteronomy through the message that Zev Kedem delivers,
we can understand it in the terms of parents encouraging
their children to begin an imprinting of the laws of
a loving G-d upon their hearts, so that “when
they are old they will not depart from it.” Proverbs
22:6
When we
make a decision to choose either life or death we soon
find that there are consequences to our decisions,
because the fruit of our decisions will follow. Some
people have said that then we should simply choose
not to make a choice. When
we read Obadiah we find that, in the eyes of the Lord,
when we make the decision to be a by-stander in the
face of evil we are just as bad as those who are doing
the evil. Obadiah 1:11. We are also cautioned
in Revelations 3:15&16
that the Lord is very unhappy when we choose to be
to be “…neither
hot nor cold…”.
Isaiah 40
Ministry has developed strategies to help families
and individuals develop the characteristics of “righteous gentiles” and
in turn to help us make the choice for life. As Zev may put it, these
strategies may help us to imprint a life-long learning pattern that will make
it easier for us to choose the “culture of life” over the “culture
of death”.
Becoming A Blessing
During
the time of the Holocaust the saving of lives came
down to one simple equation. It
came down to one person making the
decision to help one person. Making
this type of decision does not just happen. It
comes from forming a life-long habit of doing good
things for others daily and by practicing the art of
making difficult decisions.
The following
are a few examples of people we know whose lives are “living
blessings.”
Manna For Life
Linda Hogenson began collecting things others were
throwing out. She would clean and fix these
items and then find someone who needed them. In
a short time people began hearing about what she
was doing and they began calling her when they had
something to give away. She then began receiving
calls from people who knew of others who were in
need and she would begin searching for what was needed.
Linda’s husband, Jim, began putting his skills
into action and it wasn’t long before the two
of them were helping people get set up in apartments
and providing meals for the needy through their church,
Cornerstone Family Fellowship.
It was fun to visit their home because every extra
spot had clothing, furniture, house wares and toys
just waiting to find a person or family who needed
them. Their garage, basement and shed were filled
to overflowing. The Hogensons then went to the pastors
of their church and asked it they would like to become
more involved. A short time later Linda cut back
on the hours she put in at her teaching position and
she and Jim opened a thrift shop in the inner city
of Green Bay and called it “Manna For Life”. Many
people visit this store where they find they are treated
with love and compassion. We have heard that
many times people who are in need are given what they
need, free of charge. There are also reports
of people who just stop in to visit with the Hogensons
because they feel so loved when they are there
“Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one
of the least of these my brethren, you did it to me.” Matthew
25:40
An Understanding Heart!!
We
are privileged to be friends with a woman named Betty
who possesses a heart filled with compassion and understanding
for those others will have nothing to do with. Betty
started a support group for ex-cons and former sex
offenders who are sincerely trying to get their lives
in order. Betty, who is a single elderly woman,
meets with this group once a month and gives them the
encouragement to keep working toward healing. She
has become like a mother to many of the people who
participate in the group. Others have heard of
the good work Betty is doing and have joined the support
group to offer even more encouragement.
Betty
has received criticism for the work she is doing from
those who are afraid of the people she is helping. However,
she is determined to reach out a hand of compassion
to those others turn their backs on. We commend
Betty for the stand she has taken and for her show
of unconditional love.
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Questions
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When
you are trying to make a decision and do not know which
way to go, ask yourself the following questions and
it may help you to have a clearer perspective on the
whole situation. Be sure to pray and ask the
Holy Spirit of God to help you to answer these questions
as truthfully as possible.
Note: You
might have to ask yourself these questions a number
of times over a period of time. Sometimes it
takes a while to go through the “layers” of
things that are keeping you from understanding what
the decision should be.
For the sake of clarity we will
approach these questions as if the decision you are
trying to make is whether or not you should quit your
job. When you are
trying to make a decision just substitute your situation
in the place of leaving a job. For example, you
may be trying to decide if you should have a particular
surgery or not. Just use your situation
in place of “leaving
your job.”
Remember
to PRAY first! And do not listen to other people’s
opinions when answering these questions. This
is strictly between you and the Lord.
Question #1:
What is your deepest, deepest motive for leaving
your job?
What
is your deepest, deepest motive for not leaving
your job?
Question #2:
How will your
decision affect you, your family and others in the
short run?
If
you leave your job?
If
you do not leave your job?
Question #3:
How will your
decision affect you, your family and others in the
long run?
If
you leave your job?
If
you do not leave your job?
Question #4:
Which decision
gives you the most peace?
If
you leave your job?
If
you do not leave your job?
Question #5:
Which decision
would you be the most proud of making if Jesus walked
into the room while you were making it?
Leaving your
job?
Not
leaving your job?
Question #6:
What is the vision
the Lord has given you for your life and future? And,
how would your decision fit into or affect that vision?
Leaving your
job?
Not
leaving your job?
Hopefully
you will have a clearer picture of what your decision
should be by the time you have answered these 6 questions. Remember
that you must be brutally truthful with yourself and
before the Lord. He already knows what your deepest
and most truthful answers are. He just needs
you to be able to know these things for yourself.
Again,
you might have to ask yourself these 6 questions a
number of times in order to work through the confusion
that often surrounds us when we need to make major
decisions.
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HELP! We
need some heroes! Our country, our states, our
cities, our churches, our neighborhoods, our families,
our children all need heroes. In a world where
values seem to have been turned upside down, positive
role models are a major need. The entertainment
industry provides us with heroes who use violence and
deceit to survive and win their battles. Too
many modern idols still use drugs and alcohol to dull
the pain of life's problems.
Are there
any 20th century heroes whose behavior can light our
present path? The
Holocaust, the dark period from 1933 to 1945 when most
of the world sat by while one third of world Jewry
was deliberately annihilated by Nazi murderers, provides
us with a few bright lights.
The Holocaust brought the
modern world face to face with new depths of horror. Ordinary
people performed acts of cold, calculated violence
upon fellow human beings in ways that defy imagination. These
were not random acts of rage but well-organized, carefully
orchestrated acts of torture planned by technologically
sophisticated bureaucrats.
In the beginning
of the Nazi era little opposition was voiced. Once
this regime of horror was in place, opposition was
guaranteed to be dangerous and probably fatal. In
the post war years many studies have been done to determine
how this could have happened in a modern society with
a highly educated citizenry. A
burning question that recurs is, "Where were the
heroes?" A
few rescuers have been identified among the vast numbers
of bystanders. What
qualities did these rescuers possess? A look
at these factors may help us to find and encourage
heroes in our generation.
When we
look at the personalities of those rare individuals
who risked their lives, and in many cases lost their
lives, we find some startling facts. They
did not belong to any specific socioeconomic, religious,
ethnic or educational group. The likelihood of
one becoming a rescuer did not depend on age or intelligence. None
of these things seemed to be a determining factor in
the making of a rescuer.
When asked why they helped,
almost every rescuer responded in a similar manner. "Why,
I had to do this. There was no other way." - "I
did it because it was the right thing to do." - "It
was the human thing to do, anyone would have done it." However,
it seems that not everyone would have done it because
less than 1% of the population affected by the Holocaust
became rescuers.
So what
distinguishes these few people who did the "human
thing?" And
what are the lessons for us? How do we guide
our children to produce rescuers - Righteous Gentiles
- in case we are faced with such horrible decisions
again?
Four character
traits stand out in all studies of rescuers. Sadly,
these character traits seem rare in our society today.
When
interviewed, most of the rescuers could point to one
person in their lives who included them in acts of
altruism (doing good things for others expecting nothing
in return) as they were growing up. It became
a habit to do kindnesses for others in need without
being asked and without being paid for their actions. Altruism
is a strange concept in our society today. Most
of us have been conditioned to ask, "What's in
it for me?" We think, "You don't get
anything for nothing." Or "Take care
of number one." We
accept the common saying, "If I'm not happy I
can't make anyone else happy." Altruism
seems foolish to people who cut their teeth on such
ideas.
Another
common characteristic many of these rescuers possessed
was empathy.
Many people confuse empathy with feelings of pity. However,
empathy is a much deeper emotion. It is the ability
to feel another's pain, to put yourself in someone
else's shoes. We can feel pity but turn our backs
and do nothing to alleviate the pain they are experiencing. Empathy
motivates us not only to feel pain but to act to lighten
the load. "Don't get involved," is
a word of wisdom that rescuers reject. These
are not the people who turn away while others are being
robbed or assaulted.
While self-esteem
can be misunderstood and over-emphasized in our society,
rescuers seem to have the right sort of self concept. The
best kind of self-esteem comes from making good decisions. The
people who reached out and helped others in the Nazi
era seem to be people who had developed the habit of
making decisions that built true self-esteem, which
is also one of the characteristics shared by the rescuers.
Another
character trait common to most of the rescuers was
personal courage. One
might think that these people had the sort of courage
that made them stand out as pillars of strength. It
is very enlightening to hear the rescuers tell of their
own deeds. Most of these people were
frightened all the time they were in the dangerous
situations and many would be considered timid. It
becomes clear as you listen to these courageous individuals
that their courage grew as they faced their fears and
conquered them one at a time. As Frank
Eiklor says in A Time for Trumpets, not Piccolos, "Courage
is fear that has said it's prayers."
Many of
the rescuers grew up in families that had interacted
with people who came from different ethnic, physical
or religious backgrounds. They
were brought up to believe that all people were special
and they often developed friendships with others who
were different than themselves.
Another
common factor in the upbringing of many of the rescuers
was the way their families imposed discipline. Most
came from families where empathy was encouraged by
explanation of how the child's negative actions affected
others.
We can see, empathy, altruism, self-esteem and
courage do not happen miraculously. These
attributes have to be taught and nurtured if they are
to take root in children.
As we watch
the breakup of the family and the lack of caring which
is so apparent in our nation today, one wonders if
there would be any more rescuers today than there were
in Europe during the 30s and 40s. The
twentieth century should teach us that the unthinkable
can happen. How
can we prepare the next generation of "Righteous
Gentiles?"
People are
not born with courage. Heroes are not born, they
are trained and developed. If
we hope to raise a generation with the ability to stand
against evil in all of it's forms we must begin to
make acts of kindness, courage and unconditional love
a natural part of our family's lives. Just imagine
the wonderful things that could happen if each family
reading this article would take time out each week
to plan acts of kindness and courage which could be
done by each family member individually and by the
family as a whole. Each day would
become an adventure and life-giving habits would be
become a normal way of life.
There are
many stories about rescuers in the Bible. The
Lord Jesus gave us the ultimate demonstration of altruism,
empathy, self-esteem and courage as He hung on the
cross and prayed for His persecutors, "Father,
forgive them. They
know not what they do."
Bibliography:
A Time for Trumpets - Not Piccolos!, by
Frank Eiklor, Promise Publishing Co. 1988
The Courage to Care, by Carol Rittner, RSM & Sondra
Myers, New York University Press 1986
Renewal Magazine, How to Raise Rescuers, by
Sandra Porter Leon, pgs 18-19; vol. 12, No. 1, Fall
1995
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